What Happens After I Introduce You to Someone

A lot of men assume my job ends the moment I make an introduction. It doesn't.

Here's what actually happens after I connect you with someone.

I stay involved, at least at the beginning.

Once both of you have expressed interest, I don't just hand over a phone number and disappear. I check in with both sides. I want to know how the first conversation went, whether there was a connection, and if anything felt off. This isn't me being nosy. It's me making sure the introduction actually leads somewhere.

I talk to her too.

The women I work with know they can come to me with questions or concerns. That's part of why they trust me. If she's uncertain about something or needs a little encouragement before the first meeting, I handle that. You don't have to figure out the dynamic on your own.

I help set up the first meeting (if needed).

Once both sides are comfortable, I help coordinate the first date. Where, when, what kind of setting makes sense. I know the women I work with well enough to know what they're comfortable with.

You pay the introduction fee at this point.

Not before. Only once there's mutual interest. That's when the fee s due. Not upfront, not on faith.

After the first meeting, it's yours.

I step back. I'm not managing your relationship. But I do check in once more after the first date to hear how it went. If it wasn't the right fit, we talk about next steps.

That's the full picture. That's the difference between a matchmaker and a dating site.